Tuesday, 14 February 2012

RAPE PART 2!!!! OVERCOME IN CHRIST

RAPE HURTS!!!! IT CAN TRANSFORM SOMEONE INTO SOMETHING THAT THEY ARE NOT..... IT HURTS....THE MEMORIES NEVER GO AWAY!! HOW DO YOU TELL A GIRL WHO HAVE BEING RAPED SO MANY TIMES THAT THEY CAN OVERCOME!!! 
HOW DO YOU HAS A CHRISTIAN WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED THAT ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR GOOD!!!
JESUS CAN WIPE AWAY YOUR PAIN AND HURT LIKE HE DID MINE!!!!   WHEN SOMEONE HAS BEEN RAPED ITS LIKE THEIR SOUL HAS BEING RIPPED OUT!!!! 
BUT I OVERCAME MY HURTS ONLY BY ALLOWING GOD TO HELP ME TO RENEWED MY BODY AND SOUL!!!  JESUS IS ALL YOU NEED WHEN YOU HAVE ARE HURTING...AND A LOT OF PRAYER AND PATIENCE WILL BE NEEDED!!!        
BUT HE DIED FOR YOU SO THAT YOU CAN HAVE TRUE LIVE AND HAVE IT MORE ABUNDANTLY!!!!! 



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love you loveies.... xoxoxoxoxo muah

Rape hurts!!! i as the potential the transform.... What do you say to a young girl who have being raped over and over by men who should have cared for her!!!  how do you stop the memories, how do you take away the pain and the tears she cry every night!!!???        
THIS IS THE QUESTION THAT THEY ASK? HIS IT MY FAULT!!!! 


BUT I AM HERE TO TELL YOU THAT IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. AND YOU CAN LIVE ABOVE YOUR PAIN!!!    JESUS LOVES YOU AND HE DIED FOR YOU, HE CARES. HE IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRUELY  OVERCOME RAPE!!! 

Friday, 10 February 2012

Rusheka Lewis: Touchie topic: RAPE Part 1!!!!

Rusheka Lewis: Touchie topic: RAPE Part 1!!!!: Rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. Rape is about power, not sex. Both men and women of any age can be raped. Rape is a crime,...

Touchie topic: RAPE Part 1!!!!

Rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. Rape is about power, not sex. Both men and women of any age can be raped. Rape is a crime, it is a sin and it needs to stop!!!  


WHAT CAN RAPE DO TO AN INDIVIDUAL? Well, rape can literally transform an individual. It can turn an out going person into a quiet and reserve person and it can turn someone who loves pink into a dark Gothic person. Persons who have been raped feels alone and hopeless. (ps. i am in no way saying that all Gothic are raped victims)






When someone gets raped their innocence and dignity is stripped away. The thing though is that at times the victims start to hate themselves and they tend to lose trust in everyone. It also hard for them to forgive or to even love them self after that.






Lets work together to stop rape, even a hug can go soo far!!!! lovies just know i'm here for you . 
Can contact me at h_inchrist@yahoo.com...  I LOVE YOU....






                                                                              TO BE COTINUE!!!!! XOXOXO

Thursday, 9 February 2012

Rusheka Lewis: How to overcome verbal abuse!!!

Rusheka Lewis: How to overcome verbal abuse!!!: Hey guys. Today i am going to be talking about how to overcome verbal abuse by using the word of God! People might say what's there to ove...

How to overcome verbal abuse!!!

Hey guys. Today i am going to be talking about how to overcome verbal abuse by using the word of God! People might say what's there to overcome they are just word? yes they are word but no, they are not just words they are abusive and hurtful words. They are words that can cut and destroy an individual's self esteem.

    The above picture shows some abusive words.
          You might ask how then can i overcome verbal abuse? well, these scars are not physical, they are emotional ones. So, we can't go to the doctor for it but we can go to the Word of God the is able to transform. Firstly, one must find their identity in Christ. Who am i in Christ? What does the Bible (God's word say i am) says about who i am...to answer these questions are just a few of the many verses that speaks to who we are in the sight of Christ;


     1. YOU ARE ACCEPTED- 
  • john 1:12 I am God's child.
    Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God
  • John 15:15 As a disciple, I am a friend of Jesus Christ.
    I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
  • Romans 5:1 I have been justified.
    Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
  • 1 Corinthians 6:17 I am united with the Lord, and I am one with Him in spirit.
    But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit.



    2. YOU ARE SECURE-
    • Romans 8:1 I am free from condemnation.
      Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
    • Romans 8:28 I am assured that God works for my good in all circumstances.
      And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.
    • Romans 8:31-39 I am free from any condemnation brought against me and I cannot be separated from the love of God.
      What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who is he that condemns? Christ Jesus, who died more than that, who was raised to life is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written:"For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughter"No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.


      3. YOU ARE SIGNIFICANT-
      • 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 I am a minister of reconciliation for God.
        Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men's sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God. God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.
      • Ephesians 2:6 I am seated with Jesus Christ in the heavenly realm.
        And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus,
      • Ephesians 2:10 I am God's workmanship.
        For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
      • Ephesians 3:12 I may approach God with freedom and confidence.
        In him and through faith in him we may approach God with freedom and confidence.
      • Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.
        I can do everything through him who gives me strength.



        4. YOU ARE LOVED-
        John 3:16 for God so loved the word that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever believe in him should not perish but have everlasting life. 
            



        After one has found their worth in Christ them those wounds will begin to heal..... Thanks again for reading guys... love you lovies xoxoxo
        WE ALL CAN MAKE A CHANGE, START NOW!!!!!


Wednesday, 8 February 2012

Physical Abuse

THE PICTURE ABOVE DEFINES PHYSICAL ABUSE BECAUSE MANY DON'T KNOW WHEN THE LINE BETWEEN AN HARMLESS ACCIDENT AND PHYSICAL ABUSE AS BEEN DRAWN. 
     NO ONE SHOULD SIT AROUND AND ALLOW ANYONE TO ABUSE HIM OR HER. IT SHOULD BE REPORTED NO MATTER WHAT DON'T SIT AROUND AND ALLOW IT!!   LADIES PLEASE ERASE THIS PHRASE FROM YOUR MIND THAT "HE BEATS YOU BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU" IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULD NEVER EVEN BEGIN TO CONCEIVE TO THOUGHT OF HITTING YOU.
        IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE IS PLEASE READ 1 CORINTHIANS 13, THAT IS THE CORE DEFINITION OF WHAT LOVE IS!!!

I'm saying that the abusers can't or won't stop but, most of the times they don''t. The only way a person will surely change is if he or she has had a change of heart....and the MOST HIGH GOG  is the only one who can change someone's heart. Psychology changes the conditions of a situation for sometimes but the Word of God changes the heart. 
Maybe you grow up in a family like this one like i did . And you now think that this is how a woman should be treated, as i did. Surprising, yes i thought that if a man did not hit a woman in a relationship then something is wrong. So i would mess up relationships because my boyfriend would not hit me like i saw my step-dad doing to my mom. But it was the help of my christian role models and reading the word of God that i found out that this is wrong. No man has any right to hit a woman no matter what. 

Ladies you don't have to take my word for it but read for yourselves, Ephesians 5:28 "So ought men to love wives ( or your girlfriend/spouse...not reading into the bible but the application can be found in this verse) as THEIR bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself."


Make a change and do some thing about your situation or help someone you know!!!! thanks for reading....love you lovies <3


email address lewisrusheka@yahoo.com

Tuesday, 7 February 2012

VERBAL ABUSE!!!!

THIS HAS BEEN A PHRASE THAT INDIVIDUALS USE LOOSELY. BUT HOW TRUTHFUL IS IT? DO WORDS HURT AT ALL OR ARE THEY HAS PEOPLE SAY THEY ARE, "JUST WORDS". WELL, I STRONGLY DISAGREE WITH THIS, BECAUSE MOST TIMES WORDS HURT MUCH MORE THAN HITS. A CUT WILL HEAL BUT WORDS HAVE LONG TERM EFFECTS.  
        THE BIBLE STATES IN PROVERBS 15:1" A SOFT ANSWER TURNETH AWAY WRATH, BUT GRIEVOUS WORDS STIRS UP ANGER" ALSO COLOSSIANS 4:6 STATES THAT OUR SPEECH SHOULD ALWAYS BE SEASONED WITH SALT, THAT WE MAY KNOW HOW TO ANSWER EVERY MAN. 
          NOW, WE SEE HERE THAT WORDS ARE VERY POWERFUL AND ARE ABLE TO HURT AN INDIVIDUAL SO THAT IS WHY GOD WOULD SPEND TIME TO WARN US ABOUT OUR SPEECH.... 
     START TODAY MAKE A CHANGE IN SOMEONE'S LIFE SAY A KIND WORD, IT MAY BE SMALL BUT IT MAY BE JUST WHAT SOMEONE WANTED TO HEAR. 

XOXOX LOVE YOU THANKS FOR READING <3  


THIS IS A PHRASE THAT PEOPLE THROW AROUND BUT HOW TRUE IS IT?

Moving from fear to Love!!!

Hey guys! i'm new to this blogging thing. However, i will be posting things about how to over come abuse; verbally, sexually and physically by using the Bible. The THEME that i will be using is moving from fear to Love.  So please stay tuned!!!! love muah