NO ONE SHOULD SIT AROUND AND ALLOW ANYONE TO ABUSE HIM OR HER. IT SHOULD BE REPORTED NO MATTER WHAT DON'T SIT AROUND AND ALLOW IT!! LADIES PLEASE ERASE THIS PHRASE FROM YOUR MIND THAT "HE BEATS YOU BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU" IF HE LOVED YOU HE WOULD NEVER EVEN BEGIN TO CONCEIVE TO THOUGHT OF HITTING YOU.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE IS PLEASE READ 1 CORINTHIANS 13, THAT IS THE CORE DEFINITION OF WHAT LOVE IS!!!
I'm saying that the abusers can't or won't stop but, most of the times they don''t. The only way a person will surely change is if he or she has had a change of heart....and the MOST HIGH GOG is the only one who can change someone's heart. Psychology changes the conditions of a situation for sometimes but the Word of God changes the heart.
Maybe you grow up in a family like this one like i did . And you now think that this is how a woman should be treated, as i did. Surprising, yes i thought that if a man did not hit a woman in a relationship then something is wrong. So i would mess up relationships because my boyfriend would not hit me like i saw my step-dad doing to my mom. But it was the help of my christian role models and reading the word of God that i found out that this is wrong. No man has any right to hit a woman no matter what.
Ladies you don't have to take my word for it but read for yourselves, Ephesians 5:28 "So ought men to love wives ( or your girlfriend/spouse...not reading into the bible but the application can be found in this verse) as THEIR bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself."
Make a change and do some thing about your situation or help someone you know!!!! thanks for reading....love you lovies <3
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ReplyDeletein the blog above i had stated that abusers cant change...im sorry it is a typing error... what i meant to say is "i'm not saying that they can't or won't stop."
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